The Sangha of Sisterhood: Barn Retreat for Women
Sanjay Soni
Jeanie Bags
Clara Wood
Heather Stark
Jenny Chamarette
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Experience the Sangha of Sisterhood in this version of our popular 6-night retreat, providing an ideal space to begin, maintain or kick-start a mindfulness practice.
The Barn offers a respectful space for meditation practice, reflection and a respectful sense of community where women (as self-identified) can experience a sense of sisterhood - supported in their own practice within a circle of women.
Like all retreats at The Barn, this women's version is based on the three pillars of
- meditation
- community
- connection to the land
The retreats help to develop a mindful approach to our lives, work and relationships and are for up to 11 people.
You’ll experience three 40-minute meditation sessions each day, outdoor walking meditation, mindful work in the organic gardens and woods and inquiry led by the retreat leaders and visiting teachers.
Read on for more details on this retreat and click the Schedules and Venue & Directions tabs above for further information.
Sample meditation
Retreat leader Lindsay Alderton guides this metta meditation for the development and deepening of kind regard, helping you cultivate attitudes of friendliness to ourselves and to the world.
Staying in community
This retreat is for you if you:
- are prepared to live and work in community, preparing meals together and working in the gardens
- Want to experience a retreat in the Buddhist tradition
- are aged 18 and above
There will be a maximum of 11 participants on this retreat.
There are periods of silence on each of our retreats.
Daily meditations
There are approximately three 40-minute meditation sittings each day, and it's important that you commit to them to deepen your practice and connect to the community here.
Working on the land
It is important that you are willing to participate in working on the land as part of your mindfulness practice (we can easily find suitable tasks for people with health difficulties) and that you can commit to all the scheduled activities during the week.
What you’ll experience on this retreat
During this retreat you’ll:
- be living in community with other women, sharing experiences and tasks, including the making of meals and taking care of The Barn
- experience guided meditations and periods of silence and quiet contemplation
- have a single-occupancy room and your own space in which to rejuvenate, with free time to deeply rest and reconnect with yourself
- have access to 24-hour hot teas, coffee & infusions in the kitchen
- be able to explore the beautiful Sharpham Estate, set within a designated Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty close to nature, amid breath-taking scenery on the banks of the River Dart
Mindfulness in nature at Sharpham
When you experience Sharpham's inspiring and nourishing environment, we hope you'll connect spiritually with the natural world, so you’ll:
- become aware of how we are all part of nature - not artificially separate from it
- pay attention to and appreciate the natural world surrounding us
- explore nature through your senses and your natural creativity
- Tread more lightly on our finite planet, developing a respect and reverence for all living things
Click here to read our ethos and principles
What you need to know
If you decide to stay with us, we’ll send you a list of what you need to bring for this retreat in your Welcome Letter that we send out after you've booked.
You can also find out more about staying with us on our Frequently Asked Questions page, including
- accessibility information
- why we encourage you to come on your own and not with partners or friends
- what the difference is between our retreats
Food & your dietary needs
We have a fully stocked organic and vegetarian kitchen. The main meal is at lunch time.
We can accommodate gluten-free and/or vegan dietary needs. However, our kitchen is not gluten, dairy nor nut-free. We do not provide gluten-free bread, but you are welcome to bring your own.
Due to the nature of the kitchens at the Barn with food being prepared by participants and no dedicated chef, we are not able to accommodate guests who have anaphylaxis. If you have anaphylaxis we recommend you book on to one of our other retreat venues - Sharpham House, The Coach House or our Woodland Retreats.
Please make sure you include dietary restrictions and any food allergies on your Booking Form. We may need to communicate further with you about specifics. The booking form is sent as a link once you have booked and paid for a retreat.
Our water is provided from our own spring, UV treated and filtered.
Your physical and mental health
This retreat is suitable for you if you have some meditation experience, or you are seeking to renew or reconnect with your practice.
Although meditation and mindfulness can be helpful in managing stress, depression and anxiety our retreats might not be suitable if you are experiencing major depression or other clinically diagnosed psychiatric illness such as bipolar disorder, psychosis or current self-harming. Click here for more information and for our booking process
If you have a medical condition that requires you to have a room close to a toilet, please contact The Barn team on the number below and we'll try to help.
The weekly schedule provides opportunities for both individual reflection and group meditation.
It is important that you are willing to participate in working on the land as part of your mindfulness practice (we can easily find suitable tasks for people with health difficulties) and that you can commit to all the scheduled activities during the week. This includes three 30-40 minute meditation sittings each day.
Note that we hold silence from 9pm to 9am each day, and all day Wednesday.
Sunday
Afternoon |
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2.00pm to 4.00pm – Your arrival |
4.30pm – Welcome talk, introductions and tour |
5.30pm – Guided meditation |
6.30pm – Evening meal. Then settling in |
8.30pm – The Barn goes into silence until 9.00am the next day |
Monday to Friday:
Mornings | Afternoons |
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6.20am – wake up | 1.00pm – lunch |
6.50am – meditation | 2.00pm – personal time |
7.30am – household tasks | Optional afternoon activities include yoga, reading, walking... |
8.00am – breakfast | 5.00pm – Teaching by visiting teachers |
9.00am – silence ends, house meeting (except Wednesday) | 6.00pm – Light supper prepared individually or in groups |
10.30am – mindful gardening | 7.00pm – Meditation (guided Tuesday & Friday) |
12.20pm – meditation (guided on Monday, Tuesday and Thursday) | 9.00pm – Barn moves into silence until 9.00am the next day |
Saturday: As above until 8.00am - silence ends at breakfast.
Then clear rooms and depart between 9.00am and 10.00am
I’m leaving the women’s retreat having found such a deep sense of peace, acceptance and safety, and having felt such compassion in this wonderful community. The Barn is such a beautiful special place to connect to nature, to oneself, and to the wider planet. I’m leaving calmer, kinder and more compassionate and connected and I can’t wait to come back!
My experience at the Women’s Barn retreat has been transformative. I feel refreshed and better able to go back to my busy London life.
Food for the soul. A place of calm and connection, to others and nature.
This is such a special place of resting, healing and exploring.
My trip to the women’s retreat marked a turning point in my life - it opened up new possibilities, it awakened my inner being. The week was open, relaxed and free of everyday pressure. A time to just be. We laughed, we cried and we shared ourselves. We connected, not just with each other, but with ourselves.
This retreat takes place at The Barn, with superb views over the River Dart.
Please note that The Barn Retreat is in a different location to Sharpham House. Make sure to follow the directions to The Barn Retreat, rather than Sharpham House.
Click here for our How to Find Us page on this website.
Click here to view and download directions and a map to The Barn
Click here view and download walking/cycling directions to The Barn
If you have a medical condition that requires you to have a room close to a toilet, please contact The Barn team on the number below and we'll try to help.
Phones and laptops
We ask all participants to turn off mobile phones and electronic devices for the whole of your retreat. This helps you and everyone else to disengage from daily life and live fully in the simplicity and quietude of a Buddhist retreat.
We are 3 miles from Totnes – famous for its Transition Town movement
We are in a designated Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty
Sustainability
We take sustainability seriously.
Heating and hot water in The Barn is run from our log furnace and solar thermal panels. We supply as much food as possible from our organic gardens; the rest comes from Riverford Organic Farms and Essential Trading Cooperative. We also have two large photovoltaic solar panel arrays on the Estate and use biodegradable cleaning products wherever possible.
£350 - Supported Rate
The Sharpham Trust is committed to ensuring that retreats at The Barn are accessible to all - regardless of income. The Supported Rate is for those unable to pay the Standard or Benefactor Rate.
£425 – Standard Rate
Paying the Standard Rate means you will be contributing towards our running costs, supporting the work of The Barn and helping retreatants of lower incomes to access our retreats.
£495 – Benefactor Rate
If you are able to pay the Benefactor Rate, that means that you'll be supporting others who cannot afford to benefit from a Barn retreat on The Sharpham Estate. Your choice to pay this rate will help us with the running costs of The Barn, enabling us to continue our charitable work connecting people to nature and fostering mindfulness and wellbeing, as well as caring for the land, wildlife and wider estate.
Room types
All rooms are comfortable single rooms, with a shared bathroom.
Hot drinks are available 24 hours for you to get for yourself in the kitchen.
Bursaries
Limited bursaries are available for those experiencing financial hardship. Contact the Barn team on the number or email below at least 4 weeks in advance if you wish to apply.
Our bursary fund relies on donations. If you’d like to help another to go on retreat here through our bursary scheme, you can give online quickly and easily by clicking here
How to book easily and securely:
- online on this page
- by phoning 01803 732542
If you've got any questions about this retreat, call The Barn team on 01803 732661 or email [email protected]
We’re not always in the office, so be prepared to leave a message saying when we could call you back.
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