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Ageing in Awareness: Retreat for People Aged 55+
This 6-night Barn retreat is for people aged 55 or over
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Within our culture that often celebrates youth, a space for accepting and finding joy in our later stages of life is rare.
This retreat is such a space - where you can be in a contemplative and meditative community to recognise the joys and challenges of later life.
We will have periods of sitting and walking meditation, talks and discussions, gardening, and sharing about our lives with the community.
Practising together, we can discover new sources of peace and well-being and enjoy the beautiful nature of the Sharpham Estate.
Read on for more details on this retreat and click the Leaders, Schedules and Venue & Directions tabs above for further information.
Experience the supportive community at The Barn
Retreats at The Barn are based on the three pillars of
- meditation
- community
- and connection to the land.
Our retreats help to develop a mindful approach to our lives, work and relationships.
There are periods of silence on each of our retreats.
Our programme of standard 6-night retreats at The Barn can be viewed and booked here
Staying in community
This retreat is for you if you:
- are aged 55 or over
- are prepared to live and work in community, preparing meals together and working in the gardens
- Want to experience a retreat in the Buddhist tradition
There will be a maximum of 10 participants on this retreat.
Daily meditations
There are approximately three 40-minute meditation sittings each day, and it's important that you commit to them to deepen your practice and connect to the community here.
Working on the land
It is important that you are willing to participate in working on the land as part of your mindfulness practice (we can easily find suitable tasks for people with health difficulties) and that you can commit to all the scheduled activities during the week.
During this retreat you'll:
- be living in community with like-minded people, sharing experiences and tasks, including the making of meals and taking care of The Barn
- experience longer periods of silence and quiet contemplation
- have a single-occupancy room and your own space in which to rejuvenate, with free time to deeply rest and reconnect with yourself
- have access to 24-hour hot teas, coffee & infusions in the kitchen
- be able to explore the beautiful Sharpham Estate, set within a designated Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty close to nature, amid breath-taking scenery on the banks of the River Dart
Mindfulness in nature at Sharpham
When you experience Sharpham's inspiring and nourishing environment, we hope you'll connect spiritually with the natural world, so you’ll:
- become aware of how we are all part of nature - not artificially separate from it
- pay attention to and appreciate the natural world surrounding us
- explore nature through your senses and your natural creativity
- Tread more lightly on our finite planet, developing a respect and reverence for all living things
Click here to read our ethos and principles
What might you bring?
If you decide to stay with us, we’ll send you a list of what you need to bring for this retreat in your Welcome Letter. But you might consider the following:
- Comfortable, loose clothing for meditation and movement sessions
- Indoor footwear/slippers
- Suitable seasonal clothes – it can get cold in the evening and in the winter
- Boots or comfy waterproof outdoor shoes and a waterproof jacket are advisable for local walks
- A journal or notepad if you want to write or draw during your time here
Find out more about staying at The Barn on our Frequently Asked Questions page
Food & your dietary needs
We have a fully stocked organic and vegetarian kitchen. The main meal is at lunch time. Everyone takes a turn to prepare this meal in pairs (this will be organised at the Sunday welcome meeting). We have plenty of simple recipes for you to choose from, or we can direct you to one in particular. Some participants like to use their own recipe ideas.
We can accommodate gluten-free and/or vegan dietary needs. However, our kitchen is not gluten, dairy nor nut-free. We do not provide gluten-free bread, but you are welcome to bring your own.
Please make sure you include dietary restrictions and any food allergies on your Booking Form. We may need to communicate further with you about specifics. The booking form is sent as a link once you have booked and paid for a retreat.
Our water is provided from our own spring, UV treated and filtered.
Your physical and mental health
This retreat is suitable for you if you have some meditation experience, or you are seeking to renew or reconnect with your practice.
Although meditation and mindfulness can be helpful in managing stress, depression and anxiety our retreats might not be suitable if you are experiencing major depression or other clinically diagnosed psychiatric illness such as bipolar disorder, psychosis or current self-harming. Click here for more information and for our booking process
If you have a medical condition that requires you to have a room close to a toilet, please contact The Barn team on the number below and we'll try to help.
See our Barn Covid-19 measures here
The Barn draws me back year after year. The experience of working and sharing in mindful work and living is very special and never fails to deepen and enhance my practice.
Note that we hold silence from 8.30pm to 9.00am each day, and all day Wednesday.
Sunday
| Afternoon |
|---|
| 2.00pm to 4.00pm – Your arrival |
| 4.30pm – Welcome talk, introductions and tour |
| 5.30pm – Guided meditation |
| 6.30pm – Light evening meal. Then settling in |
| 9.00pm – The Barn goes into silence until 9.00am the next day |
Monday to Friday:
This is a general schedule and not the same on each day.
| Mornings | Afternoons |
|---|---|
| 6.15am – Wake up | 12.20pm – Meditation (some guided) |
| 6.45am – Movement and meditation | 1.00pm – Lunch |
| 7.30am – Household tasks | 2.00pm – Personal time |
| 8.00am – Breakfast | 5.00pm – Teaching, talks, discussion |
| 9.00am – Morning sharing and meeting | 6.00pm – Light supper prepared individually or in groups |
| 10.00am – Gardening | 7.50pm – Meditation (some guided) |
| 8.30pm – Barn moves into silence until 9.00am the next day | |
Saturday:
As above until 8.00am. Silence ends at breakfast. After that, there is time to clear your room and depart between 9.00am and 10.00am.
This retreat takes place at The Barn with superb views over the River Dart.
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If you have a medical condition that requires you to have a room close to a toilet, please contact The Barn team on the number below and we'll try to help.
Phones and laptops
We ask all participants to turn off mobile phones and electronic devices for the whole of your retreat. This helps you and everyone else to disengage from daily life and live fully in the simplicity and quietude of a Buddhist retreat.
We are 3 miles from Totnes – famous for its Transition Town movement
We are in a designated Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty
Sustainability
We take sustainability seriously.
Heating and hot water in The Barn is run from our log furnace and solar thermal panels. We supply as much food as possible from our organic gardens; the rest comes from Riverford Organic Farms and Essential Trading Cooperative. We also have two large photovoltaic solar panel arrays on the Estate and use biodegradable cleaning products wherever possible.
£350 - Supported Rate
The Sharpham Trust is committed to ensuring that retreats at The Barn are accessible to all - regardless of income. The Supported Rate is for those unable to pay the Standard or Benefactor Rate.
£425 – Standard Rate
Paying the Standard Rate means you will be contributing towards our running costs, supporting the work of The Barn and helping retreatants of lower incomes to access our retreats.
£495 – Benefactor Rate
If you are able to pay the Benefactor Rate, that means that you'll be supporting others who cannot afford to benefit from a Barn retreat on The Sharpham Estate. Your choice to pay this rate will help us with the running costs of The Barn, enabling us to continue our charitable work connecting people to nature and fostering mindfulness and wellbeing, as well as caring for the land, wildlife and wider estate.
Accommodation & facilities
All rates include all meals, bedding and towels. All rooms are comfortable single rooms, with a shared bathroom.
All rooms are randomly allocated, unless you have medical needs relating to your room allocation. If you have such a need, let us know on your booking form before the retreat begins.
Hot drinks are available 24 hours in the kitchen.
The Barn is on the Sharpham Estate, set in a stunning hillside location overlooking the River Dart within a designated Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty.
Bursaries
Limited bursaries are available for those experiencing financial hardship. Contact the Barn team on the number or email below at least 4 weeks in advance if you wish to apply.
Our bursary fund relies on donations. If you’d like to help another to go on retreat here through our bursary scheme, you can give online quickly and easily by clicking here
Felice Rhiannon
Upon her 're-firement', Felice trained as a Certified Sage-ing Leader, facilitating workshops in conscious ageing and spiritual eldering. She had previously worked as an acupuncturist, yoga therapist and teacher specialising in teaching people over 50.
With over four decades of meditation practice and three decades of yoga practice she can now often be found sitting under a tree eating chocolate.
Charlie Ivermee
Charlie Ivermee has been a retreatant at The Barn many times. Now he's co-leading a retreat.
After many years of exploration through counselling and psychotherapy, both as client and practitioner Charlie came to mindfulness in 2016 - and has had a regular practice since.
“I am particularly energised by how meditation and The Buddha’s teachings can enhance our daily lives," he said.
Charlie brings to The Barn his cheerful energy, his emotional intelligence and 70+ years of living.
All rooms are single occupancy.
How to book easily and securely:
- online on this page
- by phoning 01803 732542
If you've got any questions about this retreat, call The Barn team on 01803 732661 or email [email protected]
We’re not always in the office, so be prepared to leave a message saying when we could call you back.
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